He often will do this thing where he's in an obviously pissy mood and suddenly will look for reasons to get angry.
An example of this happened today. He's been in a bad mood all day (work related) and went out to the grocery store this evening. When he came home, he immediately became angry that my son had left the computer screen on. This quickly escalated into him saying nobody cares enough to look after the stuff he buys, and he went up to our son's room and started getting mad about random things (his camera wasn't put away properly, something else was laying on the floor, his light was left on, etc).
Then he went into our daughter's room and got mad at her for random things. Then it slides into him calling them ungrateful and taking away privileges (which never sticks anyway because he doesn't actually even mean it).
These weird outbursts happen randomly but pretty regularly, with no explanation. Once he came down into the playroom and seemed ok but quickly got upset because it was a "mess" (it was a bit messy, but it's a playroom) and just started escalating, getting angry about everything and insisting the kids do a deep clean of the playroom right that minute.
It's always when he's obviously upset about other things, but then he'll start in on something around the house that's bugging him and it just snowballs. I dread these outbursts, because he's illogical and starts getting angry about everything (the kids forgot to load the dishwasher, nobody put away the guitar, why on earth did I buy this rug??).
Is this normal? I'm sincerely perplexed. I have never once (that I can recall) had one of these outbursts where I start freaking out about everything. My parents never did this either. I have no explanation for this behaviour but it's very tiresome.
tldr. husband has random "freak outs" where he gets mad over all sorts of things that we are or are not doing correctly
Submitted September 27, 2018 at 04:42AM by dailies88 https://ift.tt/2Ilfieu
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