Discovered my boyfriend [30M] has a secret twitter account to tweet porn stars. Am I [26F] being irrational by being upset by this??

Using a throwaway because he knows my account.

I was tidying up our bedroom and I found his ipad on the floor which had a lot of twitter notifications. I didn’t know he used twitter so I was curious and read some of the notifications and they were all porn/sex related. So I got even more curious and looked up his account and I found he used it entirely to tweet porn stars. There’s literally 100s of tweets where he is tweeting porn stars about how he sexy he finds them and retweeting their pictures and stuff.

I’m not stupid. I know he watches porn and that’s fine but it really upset me to find out he’s this invested in porn. I thought we had a good sex life, well he never complains anyway. I would say he is the one more often turning down sex. I honestly don’t even know why he would tweet porn stars like that? What does he get out of it? I do feel a bit hurt that he’s tweeting other girls how sexy he finds them. I know its all fantasy or whatever but it still hurts, am I not sexy enough for him?

Am I being irrationally upset by this? Maybe its normal? I feel like kinda grossed out by it but maybe im being naïve to how a mans mind works? I don’t know if I should say anything to him but then I also feel bad that I did sort of invade his privacy.

tldr: found out my bf has a secret twitter account to tweet porn stars. am i being irrational by being upset by this?

Submitted September 28, 2018 at 10:03AM by SilentUse5 https://ift.tt/2xXXQbd