My [F22] boyfriend [M21] defending ex-girlfriend and now is back in contact with her

TL;DR: My boyfriend’s ex girlfriend ever since last year has constantly been making fake accounts to talk to both of us. Today she made a fake account to talk to him on Facebook; messaged him on Snapchat and accused me of making fake accounts. He doesn’t know who to believe but is defending her.

My boyfriend and I got together last year, and ever since his ex found out, she has constantly been making fake accounts and harassing me and him. Today she made a fake account and started talking to him on Messenger, and at the same time, she messages him on Snapchat and says that I have been making fake accounts and abusing her.

He so called “defends” me and they argue. He believes her because “she messaged me on messenger and Snapchat at the same time,” to which I told him that she’s done this before and she has a laptop and phone. He has her blocked on every other social media but not his new Snapchat account.

This hasn’t been the first time she’s made fake accounts and made it look like I’ve made them to abuse her. But the fact that he’s wanting to believe her is angering and frustrating me. Three hours later, they’re still talking on Snapchat about family and her little brother. Her little brother meant the world to him because he barely sees his little siblings because they live in a different state from one another.

Which I completely understand that, but to talk for three hours to catch up about family things? It’s bullshit. He used to always say she should speak badly about his siblings. And tonight he covered her ass by saying, “It was during a hurtful stage,”. The fact that I was crying to him on the phone, telling him how hurt I was by him believing her and still talking to her. He didn’t seem to care. Then he said, “She just messaged me saying she’ll stop talking to me because she knows you won’t like it,” and a few minutes later, they’re still talking.

I may be overreacting but fuck me, if he can’t see how hurt I am by the situation. I’ve tried understanding his perspective but there’s not much to talk about family that has it going for over 3 hours. And I have every right to be upset because he’s hidden and lied to me about things before.

Submitted September 27, 2018 at 08:20AM by JustThrowingAway96 https://ift.tt/2Oo2CJv