I moved in about a month ago and as we grow more comfortable here this guy grows more inconsiderate. I have posted before complaining about his loud music but it is just getting worse, despite our daily protests. There are four boys in my suite and the rest of us and even those in the rooms next to us are tired of him.
Every night around ten PM he starts blasting music out of his IHome. I have told him ten is quiet hour and not to do this, I have given him an extra pair of headphones. When someone comes out of their room to complain to him about turning his music down he says “my bad” but turns it back on later that night. I have told him to turn it off at 11 PM before only for him to turn it back on at 1.
Tonight he was in the shower listening to his music at full volume. I was getting texts from people I know in other rooms next to ours, saying “turn your freaking music down we’re tired of it every night”. I told him to turn it down and he walked out of the shower completely naked to turn it off. I think this was a power play because he did not want to turn his music off. I really wish I could erase that image from my mind. Despite him turning it off it is now two AM and he is blasting his music. He is in the shower again for some reason and I really don’t want to see him naked again.
The other day he was absolutely freaking out, punching the wall as hard as he could and screaming. He put a dent in the wall. I told him to go to the counselor and calm down before he came back. He was upset because we all got an email telling us we’re having a meeting with our RA to discuss our multitude of noise complaints. I think my other roommates are scared of him. They often text me to tell him to turn his music down. I have bipolar people in my family so I am more used to dealing with these intense kinds of situation.
I have told my RA before that he is just way too loud at night. They said they would handle it at the meeting. Even if that is handled, I just don’t want to live with this guy anymore. Everyone in the dorm hates him. A receptionist told me she keeps a number on speed dial when he is in the lobby alone with her because he is often shirtless and makes her uncomfortable. I feel bad kicking him out but I’m starting to think the best solution is to band together with my roommates and tell an RA that we don’t want to live with this guy anymore. I don’t even feel safe with him in here, he clearly has problems. I don’t really know what else to do at this point other than kick him out or move rooms.
Tl~dr: roommate plays his music loud at unreasonable hours of the night despite daily protests from people in our room and neighbors near ours, flashed me today and has had scary anger freak outs. I don’t really feel comfortable living with him anymore and I don’t know what to do.
Submitted September 26, 2018 at 11:03PM by ReallyUpsetAF https://ift.tt/2N66Mk8
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