Husband (29m) of 9 years just told me (28f) that he'd rather go on his ski trip by himself to "get a break" from me and infant (8 mos) I'm really hurt by this.

So to start with I love my husband and I know for a fact he loves me. I'm 8 months PP and a stay at home mom which I love and has been my life's dream. I did have a miserable pregnancy and really leaned on my husband a lot for emotional, physical and medical support. My husband is currently in his residency after four very hard years of medical school and this coming ski trip was literally going to be our first vacation since we were undergrads.

I was so looking forward to going but last night he sat me down and very calmly told me that he needs "a break" and would really like to go on the trip by himself. He's willing to do all the work to fly his mom in so she can stay with me and he's even willing to set up a solo vacation for me. I don't want this. I want to be with him and our new little family. I don't care if he skis by himself and I stay with our son but I think a chance of scenery together would be really good for us. I started crying and while he was sympathetic he said that this is the exact reason he needs a break and come back rejuvenated to be a supporting husand again.

Now that I've laid this all out there, what can I do to get him to change his mind?

Tl;dr: husband told me he wants to go on vacation by himself instead of with me and infant. I'm crushed over this.

Submitted September 27, 2018 at 09:51AM by Matzliy https://ift.tt/2xGMTeC