My (33F) Husband (33M) barely spends any time with me/child, and gets very angry whenever I talk to him.

Everything was perfect when we dated. It was much more perfect after we got married and had a child together. We were a happy family with no complaints.

Back in the day, my husband used to work with his dad at their family business, and he always came home as early as possible to spend time with me and our child. On the weekends, we would go to his parents or my parents for lunch/dinner. It's either that or we hang out with our friends. We had a good life, and nothing to complain about.

A few months ago, his dad decided to step down from the family business, and hand over the keys to my husband to pursue other activities. My husband was not at all ready for this. He knew that he would eventually take over one day, but he was caught off guard when it came so unexpectedly early. He was very nervous, and wanted more time to mentally prepare himself to jump into that role, but he had no time, so he caved in and took over.

From the day he took over the business, he had no time for us. He would leave home early in the morning and work until late night. He even used to work on the weekends sometimes. He never had the time to even say "hi" to us.

So, I started to call him at work during lunch hours or other break hours just so he could talk to me, but he would get so angry at me for calling him at work.

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This is how the conversation went when I used to call him at work :-

Me :- Hey!

Hubby :- WHAT?

Me :- Did you have your lunch?

Hubby :- WHAT DO YOU WANT? I'M BUSY RIGHT NOW

Me :- I just called to talk to you. We haven't been talking much lately

Hubby :- ARE YOU STUPID OR SOMETHING? I'M FUCKING BUSY RIGHT NOW, AND I HAVE A LOT ON MY PLATE TO MANAGE, SO STOP CALLING ME UNLESS IT'S URGENT

Me :- Why are you screaming at me? We haven't talked to each other in weeks. Hell, I barely even saw you at home. I just called to talk to you.

Hubby :- THIS IS NEITHER THE TIME NOR THE PLACE TO ARGUE ABOUT THAT, SO FUCK OFF AND LEAVE ME ALONE!

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On the weekends (he used to work on Saturday's, so Sunday), when he's usually home I would go and try to spend some time with him, but he would scream at me asking me to leave him alone because he worked his ass off at work all week, and he needs to rest to recharge for the next week.

Advice?

tl;dr :- Husband doesn't spend time with me or our child at all because of his business. When I tried to make a conversation with him, he would scream at me and ask me to stop calling him because he's busy.

Submitted October 09, 2021 at 09:52AM by Tree-tops- https://ift.tt/3uV2Udm