I just found this out a few hours ago. While he was out of town on a vacation, he met up with the ex and they spent many days together.
Naturally I threw all of his things outside for him (we lived together) and we are no longer together.
I had my suspicions that there were communication issues and I could sense we were both feeling distant. But I was hoping I could talk this out with him once he returned from his long trip.
I’m just horrified. He’s always been the “nice guy” and would vocally hate people who cheated. I truly never expected this. I thought he would never.
The kicker is today’s also my birthday.
But the worst part of all of this is that I had to see the Instagram pictures of he and his ex together, cuddling, looking so happy. I wish I could get these images out of my brain.
I’ve never posted on Reddit before but please, someone, give me some advice. How do I get over this betrayal? I’ve even been cheated on before but this feels so much worse because he made me think he was the one. I just had been holding out hope we could make it work, and if not, even split amicably. Any advice for how to move on is appreciated.
TLDR; my boyfriend cheated on me. How do I heal?
Edit: for some spelling
Submitted September 30, 2021 at 10:09PM by Guilty_Self1156 https://ift.tt/3B0kbUY
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