first time poster & on mobile, so my apologies for formatting issues 😅
a little context: we’ve been friends for a little over a year, mainly just grabbing coffee and maybe going out with friends. this is to say we don’t really have a super close friendship yet, but I value her friendship. somewhat relevant is i’ve noticed she has overly high confidence (which is wonderful but I think she may be masking some insecurities and something like this would make her feel embarrassed). she prides herself on her athleticism, and her body which she’s worked hard for.
the reason I really think i should tell her is that people in my friend group have noticed. my boyfriend has mentioned that she smells super bad, and another of his friends mentioned he was trying to stay way from her because of the smell. it’s a strong BO smell that can be smelled across a table.
i want to be a good friend and let her know (as I would want to know if i smelled as well) but I want to be sensitive and not make her feel embarrassed, and of course I recognize that it could be a medical issue she’s struggling with. so how do i bring it up politely in a away that is least likely to embarrass her?
tl;dr: my friend smells super bad every single time i see her, and it’s gotten to the point that other people notice. how do i let her know without embarrassing her?
Submitted October 25, 2021 at 03:26AM by twochickennugget https://ift.tt/2ZkxEJH
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