Me and this woman have been talking for maybe 2 months at this point and we have become great friends that tell each other everything and spend all day together when we can, we have even done a lot of things you wouldn’t do with just a friend. Just the other day she told me that she has feelings for me and I was so happy cause I thought this was gonna be the start of something amazing but when I try to talk about it she says it would be weird to date because of the age difference. Then I asked her if I was 20 and she was 25 would it still be weird and she said no, I don’t understand what’s gonna be different about me in 2 years other than the age that I am it’s not like either of us are in school, we both have jobs and live with our parents with plans to move out soon so it feels like we are at the same stage in life in my eyes but maybe I’m young and dumb 🤷♂️. I tried to understand her side and I couldn’t so I didn’t force her to explain herself and we just continued our conversations like we never spoke about it and we haven’t spoken about it since. I don’t know what to think which is why I’m on here and hoping someone can let me know what they think about it from the outside.
tl;dr A woman I am really close friends with told me she has feelings but doesn’t want to date because of an age difference of 5 years and I feel that we are at the same stages in life but then told me in 2 years when I’m 20 it wouldn’t be weird and I don’t know what to think.
Submitted October 01, 2021 at 01:46PM by Middle_Armadillo_891 https://ift.tt/39Vq2Ps
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