My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half, and have now been living together for 5 months.
The relationship started out great, he was kind and caring, and we spent a lot of quality time together.
As our relationship has progressed I feel like we have grown apart and are more like roommates now. My Bf loves to play videogames. I completely respect and understand that he needs his time to “unwind” as I also need time for myself at the end of the day.
The problem is that now all he wants to do is play. When he wakes up he plays, during work he plays, after work, before dinner, before bed, I wait for him to finish by the door when we need to leave the apartment, in the middle of the night (you get it the picture).
He also ordered a gaming laptop last weekend. He couldn’t figure out the settings to make it work properly, and that whole day/weekend he was in such a bad mood. I couldn’t even talk to him without him snapping at me. He even missed out on dinner plans with my family.
I let him know thats Id like to spend some quality time with him. Every time we do it feels forced, he will even say, “I’ll hangout with you for a bit because I know you want to, then I’m going to play.”
I just feel like its a burden to spend time with me or even ask. We got into a huge argument the other night and he started yelling, being intimidating, and literally got into my face. To be quite honest I felt afraid. He kept yelling and would not lower his voice or walk away no matter how many times I asked.
I’m questioning the relationship and think it is best to end the relationship now.
TDLR: Am I being too controlling for asking my boyfriend play less video games and spend more time with me?
Submitted October 02, 2021 at 03:36AM by nitzaaaa https://ift.tt/39YZFIl
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