I was dating a girl off and on for 9 years, and during one of those times we were off (around 3 years ago), my brother decided to hit on her. She said she felt uncomfortable, and decided to let me know what was happening. After sending me screenshots of his messages, I decided to calmly confront him. I asked him not to hit on her, and said I would feel very uncomfortable if they started dating. He apologized, and said it would never happen again.
A year ago, I decided to end it with her for good, and blocked her on all of my socials. Apparently, she had been trying to get a hold of me after I blocked her, but couldn’t and would message my brother instead, so he could pass along her messages (he did, sometimes).
Today I found out they have been sleeping together for the past two months, and he’s been trying to keep it a secret. He said it all started when she tried to get a hold of me, and said it was my fault. He also explained it was ok because I blocked her.
How would you folks handle a situation like this? Am I allowed to feel upset even though I ended it and blocked her?
TL;DR My brother is dating my ex after I asked him not to, and he’s saying it was my fault
Submitted October 24, 2021 at 03:59AM by truenseeker https://ift.tt/3nq5g0t
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