We have been together for almost 3 years, living together about 1.5 years. He is an extreme introvert and I'm an extrovert. Recently I've realized this relationship is mentally and physically draining my energy. The first thing i like to do every morning is just to get up listen to a happy music and cook breakfast which I've suggested that to him multiple times. Since he always skips breakfast i have suggested that we do such things together so he also gets motivated but he ignored. We don't talk much through the day and I'm tired of this relationship. It seems like he's good on his own and getting involved in a relationship doesn't interests him. Once i had taken wrong dosage of a medicine and therefore was feeling very dizzy and i had to go to the ER. I asked him if he can come with me, he said no i can't deal with these stuff, so i had to go there on my own and the doctor told me i had nearly had an overdose. When i discussed it to my boyfriend, he said he didn't think it was serious at all. I mentioned i wanna break up and move out, which he asked me not to. But i really can't deal with him anymore. He drains my energy so much. Every time i tell him i wanna break up and move out, he just says Mhm and then keeps acting as if nothing has happened. Rather than this stuff, he barely does any housechores. Not only mentally and emotionally but also physically i am tired all the time. I dont know how to deal with this situation anymore. Any advices would be appreciated. Thank you!
TL;DR - my boyfriend is an extreme intovert, it is emotionally draining me.
Submitted October 10, 2021 at 07:37AM by pardisj https://ift.tt/3Ds4CpF
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