My (25f) bf(36m) and I have been living together for under a year now. He has 2 boys-9 and 12 that are with us every other week. I am a full time masters student, and since the semester started, I realised that the noise from the children, the responsibility of making dinner etc and their regular tantrums aren’t working for me. I benefit a lot more from returning to life in student housing which is much closer to my uni, and socialising with people that I probably have more in common with since I feel so disconnected now. That being said, I personally don’t think it’s sensible to tell my bf I want to end things and move out 2 weeks later, I’d much prefer to be done and out within 24-48hrs. So the alternative would be me acting like all is well while I start renting out a dorm, and let him know that there’s been weeks of planning happening under his nose at the very end-which doesn’t seem fair either.
Also I managed to get a dorm that I have to sign off on in 5 days, but physically move in in 2 or so weeks. I’m not sure how to proceed in a way that makes everyone satisfied..
TL;DR: I have been living with my boyfriend and his kids for 7 months. I’m a full time student and need peace and quiet at home for work and I understandably can’t get that all the time. I am planning on moving out but don’t know if I should tell him long before the moving day, or tell him when I am all packed and have my dorm confirmed
Submitted October 06, 2021 at 05:53AM by buckwheatfuckwheat https://ift.tt/3iEQQYV
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