We are pretty serious, and I know we are young and it is cliched, but I think this might be "the one" for me, so I really want her to be happy. The problem is that she is self-conscious about her body. She is in general a very cheerful and joyous person, but when we are intimate and vulnerable together, she often expresses insecurities about her body. I love her so much that it absolutely destroys me to see her get sad over it. Most of her insecurities stem from her perception that she is skinny and has small breasts. I have tried numerous times to convince her that she is perfect the way she is and she agrees but I think she does it just to make me stop worrying. I did previously tell her that she should eat more since she seemed like she was malnourished (that was because she was eating like only one meal a day even with her classes and lab at that time, and I thought I was looking out for her when I was making sure that she is eating at least two full meals a day), and now I feel like her self-consciousness might have stemmed partly from that as well. I really do want what's best for her and don't want to see her sad/hurt, so is there anything that I can do?
Tl;dr: My girlfriend is self-conscious that she is too skinny and have small breasts. How can i help her not get sad over it?
Submitted February 23, 2020 at 02:14AM by strangerintime https://ift.tt/2PirmSu
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