I've been seeing someone for about a week now, we've been getting along very very well. He is super super sweet and loving, we'll lay down and watch movies and he'll intermittently kiss me on and off multiple times etc. He willingly asks me to stay at his place just to watch a movie and have a laugh without initiating intimacy. Last night however, we got a little intimate and he ejaculated via oral sex and became distant immediately after. It was almost as if he couldn't even look at me straight in the eye anymore. He wasn't being rude, but just wasn't acknowledging me in the same sweet way anymore. He started lifting weights, grabbed something to eat, and started talking about random things and movies. I was super confused, so i asked why he was avoiding me. He responded by saying that It's just how he is after ejaculation and he himself doesn't know why he's like that and cant promise that it'll change. And that it has always been a problem for him and is probably the reason why has been single. That was his only response, and i kept pushing further for details, but he asked me to stop. He didn't cuddle me the entire night. I left his place feeling down, didn't give him a kiss as i was leaving, but he called me from behind and gave me a look like "wheres my kiss" and so i walked back to him and he kissed me. The next day, he proceeded to talk to me as if nothing had happened. I called him later and told him I could not longer do this and that it feels like it'll end up being an emotional roller coaster for me in the long run. The bigger problem to me was that he acted as if everything was completely okay the next day without even acknowledging anything. He offered that maybe we should slow down and just get to know each other/personalities. But i refused and said that I cant. Am i overreacting? Is this normal behavior in males? Previous men I've been with were loving after sex as well, so I'm unsure of this since I am definitely the type that needs post-sex cuddles. If i am overreacting, should I get back into touch with him to sort this out?
TL;DR: super sweet Guy ive been seeing for a week becomes super distant after ejaculation and he cant explain why. I told him I cant continue seeing him as this looks like it'll turn into an emotional roller coaster. Am i overreacting? If I am, Should I get back in touch with him to sort this out?
Submitted October 06, 2021 at 09:11PM by Fragrant-Speed-58 https://ift.tt/2YpXCdZ
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