I’ll start out by saying I’ve been dealing with some pretty bad depression for about a month. I have a pretty high stress job and that doesn’t help either. He’s been there for me the best he can be but he just doesn’t understand.
Moving on, my (27f) husband (29m) (together for 3 years) went on our honeymoon last weekend. We took a 7 day cruise. He knew a vacation with my current mental health might be hard, so he said on the plane, “I don’t care how many people are on that boat. You’re the only one on it in my eyes”. Our first day was nice, hung out by the pool, and got dressed up for dinner. The following day we met a big group of couples and friends on one of our excursions. They asked to hang out and we did that night. It was really nice for the both of us, since we’ve always had a hard time making friends.
This would have been fine if it ended here. But we hung out with them every night. He talked to the guys and not me. He even lost $200 in the casino just because they were going. When we got off the ship I thought we’d finally have time together because we had a later flight but no. We went to brunch with them.
Am I wrong for being upset? If this was just a vacation it would have been great. But our honeymoon? I thought that was supposed to be about us, and be romantic. All I want to do is cry.
TLDR; My husband spent our honeymoon making friends instead of having a romantic getaway with me.
Edit: Typos
Submitted October 03, 2021 at 03:42AM by killercupcake_007 https://ift.tt/2YfF4NQ
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