I’ve been with the same man for ten years. I (f27) found naked photos of one of our friends that’s a bikini barista 2 years ago on my boyfriends(M29) phone and it crushed me. He refused to stop talking to her because they were friends and even tried to hire her for our business. She bullied me online and made me extremely uncomfortable but I moved on from that. I asked my man to not engage with baristas after that because the whole thing had felt like he cheated to be honest. I found another friends photo on his phone, he had deleted messages from a girl he met up with and a few other things over the past two years..mind you he is EXTREMELY jealous. I can’t even have guy friends. He convinced me everyone was just trying to fuck me. Last night I was on his phone and found tons of content in his notes from baristas including videos etc. I couldn’t even get through all of them. He would t explain and left and wouldn’t answer my calls for 12 hours. When he finally does all he will explain is he downloaded them off the internet?? I’m so hurt and he’s not understanding, does not care and ultimately I feel so betrayed. I don’t know if he’s lying. He also admitted to visiting one of these stands after the first incident so I feel like all around I just can’t trust him. We own a home together and I don’t know what to do. Do I forgive AGAIN? Can I even move on again? I don’t want to be insecure anymore.
TL;DR Boyfriend of ten years has saved photos and videos of other women on his phone in the notes and my feelings are so hurt.
Submitted October 06, 2021 at 09:51PM by PoisonWest https://ift.tt/3adxTbj
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