My (29F) bisexual fiancé (30M) wants to hook up with a man for the first time

I (29F) am engaged to my fiancé (30M)and we’ve been dating for 4 years. We have a great relationship, communicate really well, do everything together, and have lived together for 2 years without any issues.

One year into the relationship, my fiancé came out to me privately as bisexual, though he had never been with a man sexually/romantically before. I wasn’t totally surprised by this because we had a couple casual conversations about men we had found attractive, but since we were in a monogamous relationship I really didn’t think that much about it. Over the next few years our relationship continued to progress without much mention of it.

A year ago (now 3 years into the relationship), we got engaged as was always intended. 2 months after that, my fiancé decided to come out to his family as bisexual, but explain that he is in love with me and this doesn’t change anything about our relationship or the wedding. It did surprise me that he came out despite no plans for him to explore his bisexuality outside of the relationship, but I genuinely supported his decision.

Last week, my fiancé came to me and expressed his desire to explore with men for the first time. We haven’t reached a decision on where to go from here yet. I genuinely love him and would never want to keep him from exploring this side of himself, but I’m also afraid for our relationship if he feels like this part of his sexuality is bigger than he realized.

We are getting married next year, so there is a mutual sense of urgency to figure this out. I’m not interested in trying threesomes, but the idea of him hooking up with a guy while I’m home alone with full knowledge of what’s happening really upsets me. I don’t want to lose him but don’t want to keep him from his authentic self. I honestly don’t know where to go from here. Any advice appreciated.

TL;DR: My (29F) bisexual fiancé (30M) wants to hook up with a man for the first time but we’re getting next year and I’m afraid this will affect our relationship

edit: typo

Submitted October 08, 2021 at 09:53PM by West-Treat9742 https://ift.tt/2YBzCEU