I (23F) flew home to my family for a visit to put some space between my husband (24M) and I, and now I have mixed feelings.

My husband and I have been fighting so much lately over the same thing- his lack of trust in me. To make a long story short, he gets angry when I play video games with guys and will have major hissy fits where he gives me the silent treatment… video games… it baffles me. I’m also pregnant and fat so umm…. Who does he think I’m going to have an affair with? Anyways. I have brought up my own concerns in the relationship which is the lack of non sexual intimacy. My husband only touches me most of the time to initiate sex.. He always asks for back and head scratches but never returns the favor. Idk I just always pictured myself pampered by my SO when I was big and pregnant.. Well, during my time here, he mentioned that he was upset that I was in a group chat with some friends because I give them too much attention… I just replied that he’s in group chats and he should be happy For me that I have friends… I just ignored him. My cousin was rubbing my legs and belly all night while we were talking. My mom also rubbed my neck and scratched my back until I fell asleep last night… it was nice.. I never want to leave .. :( I want this support. The only thing I can think of is for us to attend counseling together, but idk.. I just haven’t been happy. Any other suggestions ?

TLDR: my husbands trust issues are ruining our relationship and I crave more support in our relationship..

Submitted August 01, 2021 at 07:13AM by ScarredKeko https://ift.tt/3leTo26