Told him in confidence about my depression and going to therapy. He then throws it my face and says I’m unstable and breaks up with me?

My (30/f) (ex) boyfriend (30/m) and I hit a very rough patch. A lot of arguing and lately he’s gotten very nasty with his attitude. So we were out drinking and my mom called so I stepped away. I came back and he could tell my mood had changed and asked what’s wrong. I told him she was checking on me because she’s worried about my depression and wanted me to go talk to a therapist- something I’ve been trying to hide from him and and hadn’t talked to him about. In the midst of telling him I just got emotional and started crying pretty hard. He started getting really concerned and asked what else was going on. I started to telling him I’m just also frustrated and sad with how things were going with us and that he needed to change or I couldn’t be in the relationship anymore. He turns to me that I could just leave and to get out. I didn’t say a word and gathered my things and left.

This morning I sent him a text saying seeing each other last night was a mistake. Basically told him how ugly and disrespectful his attitude was and if he told me to get out again me leaving would be permanent. How adults talk things through instead of being disrespectful. If he couldn’t refrain from doing that then he didn’t need to be a part of my life.

He responded with,

“Your mom is right. Go to therapy. You can’t even keep yourself stable so there’s nothing that can show me you can keep a relationship stable.

It’s best that we stop talking. You need to work on yourself”

I told him he was extremely disrespectful and I’m no longer tolerating disrespect and then wished him the best then blocked his number.

Now I’m questioning my sanity. Am I unstable? I joke I was upset and crying last night but I wasn’t hysterical and I didn’t blow up or anything when voicing my grievances, but I’m still thinking he must really think I’m unstable for him to have ended things. It’s really making me question if I’m a stable person or not now...

Tldr: boyfriend called me unstable then broke up with me

Submitted July 02, 2021 at 08:09AM by InstructionFine499 https://ift.tt/3ArkXKS