I [48 M] want to know how to proceed with my my wife [46 F] of 17 years, on catching her cheating twice.

I am married 17 years and with my wife for 21.

Since late April, she has been having a virtual affair with an old boyfriend who is 1600 miles away. I have all her text messages during this time, in which she fell back in love with him, made plans to eventually meet him and see him, and talked about blindsiding me with divorce. I confronted her 4 days ago, talked it out, and she wants to stay married. She said she did it because she was feeling unloved for a while. I am her provider. She is a stay home mom.

She sent him one final text message in front of me, and put an end to things. Or so I thought she did. I recently discovered 2 days ago, she created a new email account and Facebook account to continue chatting with him. I did not confront her on this yet.

I want to move in with my mother for a bit to get away from her and digest all this. I am a mess. We have two teenage daughters as well.

Pete

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tl;dr: What do I do here after giving her a second chance at continuing our marriage?

Submitted July 01, 2021 at 11:51PM by NeglectedHubbyinNY https://ift.tt/3AkdQUi