*Reposting this as my previous post used a variation of 'WWYD'.
I’ve been seeing a guy from a couple of months and things have been going well/he’s made it obvious that he would like me to be his girlfriend and has always acted that way. He hasn’t had a girlfriend before.
The other night I was on his phone casually (with his consent) and we were sitting going through photos together. We have sent nudes and I know that he kept some of mine as I had the notification that they were screenshotted etc and I made comment on it, and asked where they were. He tells me that they’re in the “hidden” section of his photos and presses on it to show me. I notice mine, and then screen recordings of another girl in a bikini/scantily clad from her Instagram story. Initially I laughed as I thought it was funny and before my time, and then I clicked on to the photos/recordings and they said “9 days ago”.
He made a joke about it being “a bit recent” and then when I clearly wasn’t impressed, he said “I’m sorry you saw that” “I should’ve deleted it”. This was clearly his wank bank material as he’d gone to the effort of moving it to a private folder alongside my photos. His explanation was that it was someone he worked with previously that he fancied, and that he thought she looked good so he screen recorded her story. Kinda just dug more of a hole for me. The girl herself is married/older and to my knowledge not interested in him, and this was a public story/images he’d saved into his hidden folder.
I think it’s best to cut my losses and I feel like this early on it’s a red flag, and just the behaviour in general is a bit weird/off. I am quite disappointed though as I do like him. I know however, that if I let it slide for similar things to keep occurring, that I'd beat myself up.
EDIT: I haven't heard from him now for days after he left the evening I saw this on his phone. There was no argument, just silence and I asked him if he was OK to drive home and walked him to his car to let him out of my building's car park.
TLDR; Guy I’ve been seeing has a hidden folder with my nudes and also recent recordings/photos of another girl he knows/worked with previously.
Submitted July 02, 2021 at 04:54AM by Curious-Rise https://ift.tt/3An12MO
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