Girlfriend and her closest friends brought a couple of guys back to their hotel room from a club. I’m going be honest I am pretty worried, but I’m not sure if its wrong to worry this much, any help?

My girlfriend (f) and I (m) are both 23, we’ve been dating for 3 years now and we met in our early years in college. She’s been awesome ever since!

The situation is, she has gone on a summer trip with her closest friends to celebrate her birthday, and well tonight they went to a club to have some fun. No issue there, except the fact they invited a couple of guys over to their hotel room to hang out and drink. I know all this based on what she’s been texting me all night. I am pretty uncomfortable with this or I don’t know, my gut feeling is telling me red flags all around, especially this late at night being 4:00 am.

In a past relationship, I have been cheated on, with my ex-girlfriend going out with her male best friend. Its been years since, and honestly thought I have moved passed all that before coming into my current relationship. I explain this because, maybe I’m just insecure and haven’t moved on from it.

This is her first time going to a club and I trust her, it’s just I have doubts since alcohol is involved and she is not very good with alcohol and stuff can happen especially when you’re drunk late at night with some guys over.

All I can text her is to stay safe and look out for herself and her friends. Haven’t received any texts yet but I’m still so uncomfortable with this situation and just out right worried. Maybe its just me being cautions since I don’t trust the intentions of some guys especially complete strangers.

Am I wrong to worry this much?

TL;DR: girlfriend and her best friends went out to the club and invited a couple of guys over to their hotel room. She’s been texting me about it but I feel uncomfortable about the situation.

Edit: grammar

Submitted July 25, 2021 at 02:38AM by worry_throwaway https://ift.tt/2Wktuzy