I originally posted this situation in a different sub, but after some updates to the story since that redoing the post on here.
I (19F) found out my best friend (20F) "Alexa" is getting cheated on by her boyfriend (21M) "Andrew" three days ago. My boyfriend (21M) "Michael" and I decided to wait to say anything to gather evidence and verify it. It's 3 am here (anxiety is awful, can't sleep) on the 1/4/21 so I wanted to tell her yesterday, 3/31/21 but by the time I could meet with Alexa, Andrew was at the house. Michael and I are going to her house at 10am to break the news. I understand its April Fool's day which is probably the worst time to say something but we can't let this go on for another day. Plus, I know she'll believe us.
Andrew was supposed to meet with the girl last week but something popped up for him. Then they we're supposed to meet 3/31/21 as soon as he got off work but she cancelled for whatever reason. Our friend "Zach" (21M) is our informant, he was able to send us screenshots of their conversion today. Truly disgusted by the texts..."How bad do you want it"..."we have to do it as soon as I get off work"... so gross. Alexa doesn't deserve this at all.
I'm very nervous. I feel awful for her and I know this is going to cause a nuclear fall out. I'm praying she won't stay with him but because of our pasts (both of us were in abusive relationships in high school and learned our lesson with cheaters) I don't think she will thankfully. Does anyone know exactly how we should word this when telling her? I was originally going to tell her by myself but my boyfriend offered to come with me since my anxiety is off the charts. He has became a close friend of hers so I don't think this is a problem. I've been cheated on so I'm trying to see exactly what I would have wanted to hear. Any advice is greatly appreciated!
TL;DR! I found out my best friend is getting cheated on and I'm telling her in 6 hours. I need advice on how exactly to word this correctly and any other helpful advice.
Submitted April 01, 2021 at 12:31AM by kkoolaide https://ift.tt/3rPanb3
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