I have lived with my current roommate for 2 years- the first year we were still in college and it was great. We lived with our 2 other best friends and all got along really well. After graduating, we got jobs in the same city and decided to live together again, this time just the 2 of us. I have not enjoyed rooming with her this year at all. We get along for the most part, but she is very messy and doesn’t contribute to household chores hardly at all. I have brought this up to her many times but nothing has changed. Lots of other small things have built up- there has definitely been lots of passive aggression from both of us as we don’t seem to see eye to eye on a lot of things. I hate that this has happened because she used to be a close friend I loved but now I find her annoying and dread spending time with her. Our lease is ending in a few months and she has been very vocal that she wants to live together again next year.
I don’t want to live with her again but I have no idea how to tell her. I know that she will be very upset and it will most likely end our friendship, which I don’t want to happen. I also don’t have any other plans lined up- I most likely would have to find another random roommate as I don’t want (and can’t afford) to live alone. Should I suck it up and sign another lease with her? Anyone else been in a similar situation?
TLDR: Don’t enjoy living with my best friend, how to tell her I don’t want to live together anymore- or suck it up and resign for another year?
Submitted March 31, 2021 at 05:28PM by ineedahug_pls https://ift.tt/3fwMHW4
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