My girlfriend(25) is depressed i tried everything to make her feel better but nothing works what should i do please help me

so ever since the pandemic hit we've been trying to stay isolated for the most part and don't have much interaction with our friends who we used to see almost every weekend. and we are limited with what we can in home .

due to that my girlfriend has been acting really sad , depressed ever since late summer . she keeps taking long walks in our backyard and street . is really quite ( which she has never been in the 2 years we've been dating ) we haven't made love in like 3 and a half weeks . and it seems like she has no motivation to do anything. worst of all is that she has been drinking alcohol a bit too much i take her to her favorite places around our city , helped and accompanied her in everything she does if she asks , try to cook her favorite foods and have tried to be way more positive than usual ( which is a bit hard for me tbh ) . and buying her anything she wants that is reasonable.

I've tried asking her about it but never got a clear answer the only time i got a bit of a clear idea why she might be acting this way is when she told me to ask yourself i don't really know why she has told me this because i try my best .i love her more than anybody else but I'm afraid she the way she is acting is going to affect her mental health.

i have tried everything but her mood doesn't change she isn't much open to therapy either she used to be a really strong and positive person so this is new what should I do please help

tl;dr : My girlfriend(25) is depressed i tried everything to make her feel better but nothing changes her mood i don't know what to do please help

Submitted December 01, 2020 at 02:16PM by joeller19901980 https://ift.tt/3mwGLNt