So I’ve been in a relationship for about 7-8 months with this guy and I notice he is very touchy with family members. He randomly tickles his cousin (F23) or pokes her, he randomly starts jumping/humping his brother’s wife (F26) and today he randomly hugged his sister (F30) from behind for a good minute while rubbing her arms. It made me super uncomfortable. I addressed my concerns and he justifies it by saying “they don’t think it’s weird, they don’t say anything to me” but it’s like super bizarre to me. I told him “what if your cousin’s boyfriend started randomly tickling me constantly and poking me and touching me without my consent, would that bother you?” and he said “yes” so I don’t get it? I’m I being too insecure and weird for it making me uncomfortable? Even if it’s family members? He’s just really touchy with girls in his family. Help.
TL;DR my boyfriend is really touchy with his family members and it makes me uncomfortable
Submitted December 27, 2020 at 05:00PM by wulpey https://ift.tt/2WM346R
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