My [f28] husband [M30] of 5 years went on tinder while away on a sports trip. Claims he was ‘bored’ and not looking for anything.

He went away on a week long trip on the other side of the country with his sports team. For 8 days I worked full time, watched our toddler, and managed everything while 6 months pregnant.

Turns out while on the trip he was chatting with girls on tinder. This was a few weeks ago, but I just saw the app on his phone today while looking on his phone for directions while he drove. As soon as I saw tinder I clicked on it. He would not let me see the conversations but I saw there were a few. And he grabbed the phone away. He was super defensive at first saying it wasn’t a big deal.

He said he was bored and there was nothing else to do in the hotel room. We haven’t had sex since July due to my libido being super low with pregnancy and reoccurring yeast infections (so fun!). Am I justified being pissed? I caught him in a couple other lies this week not related to tinder but I’m just feeling hurt and confused.

Tl;dr: Husband went on tinder and claims its cause he was bored. I’m pissed.

Submitted October 27, 2018 at 06:52PM by closetedqueer https://ift.tt/2OdhmGG