So I've had this huge crush on a girl now for weeks and I really, really like her. I think she's really damn pretty and she just seems like such a nice person.
The problem is that I only know her through instagram/seeing her around. She effectively doesn't know I exist... I've debated messaging her countless times but I keep freaking out.
I was shocked today to find out that she's trans, like really shocked. It doesn't change my opinion though, she still seems really great and I'm not that shook about it. I'm a little concerned what my parents would think but that's the least of my concerns. I might get bullied or called gay or whatever but honestly, I still really want to talk to her.
I guess I just don't really know what to do. I really like her and want to get to know her better but the new development sort of stumps me a little. I've never been in a relationship with anyone before and I'm a pretty shy person, I don't know how to go about anything? I'd really appreciate some help with this situation.
TL;DR: How do I go about asking her out? Do I still do it if I get lots of harassment from it? I really like her.
—-EDIT—-
Ok so a lot of comments here seem to highlight that this girl won’t look the same when in person as she does on Instagram.
I have seen the girl numerous times out in town/around the city - physical attraction is not the issue here, yes her look differs in person but I’m honestly not bothered by that.
Submitted October 30, 2018 at 06:33PM by der-forgotton https://ift.tt/2PztxCq
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