We’ve been dating for over 3 years and we moved in together after 5 months due to convenience, but most of that time I’ve had to take on the responsibility of doing the housework such as cleaning and grocery shopping. I’ve tried to reason with him and ask him to do the chores with me but he always just says that he doesn’t want to, or that nothing needs to be done.
I’ve tried not doing the chores all together but it gets to the point where it drives me crazy seeing everything pile up and I give in and just do it. In addition he doesn’t notice or even care that things aren’t getting done. I feel a lot of resentment towards him for not taking initiative at least every once in a while. Whenever I talk to him about how I feel and that I do most if not all of the housework and try to compromise he either gets mad and says that I’m insulting him, or he says that he doesn’t ask me to do any of it so why should I ask him. I was aware when entering the relationship that he wasn’t the most cleanly person but I hoped that I would rub off on him or he would want to change to make me happy. I’m not sure if I should just throw in the towel and throw away over 3 years of my life or continue to try to reason with him in hopes that he’ll change. What should I do?
Tl;dr my(21F) boyfriend(23M) of 3 years doesn’t split household chores and duties with me and every attempt at overcoming the issue has failed. Should I leave or keep trying to work it out?
Submitted August 01, 2021 at 11:37AM by crawlouthrufallout https://ift.tt/2VdzpWW
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