TL;DR! Husband gets passive aggressive with me when he’s done something he thinks is stupid or mindless and i suggest taking more responsibility And being aware.
Today’s example goes like this.
He took our kids for a walk to buy a treat at the corner store.
Him, concerned, “So, I just spent $60 at the corner 7/11” Me, “$60?, how is that possible?” Him, “I don’t know. I wasn’t paying attention.” Me, “well, I mean, that’s a lot of money for a snack run, maybe keep an eye on it a bit better next time?” Him, “fuck off, you do it yourself then.” (Referencing that since he can’t keep track of transactions, I should just take over and go shopping and everything) Me, “why can‘t you keep an eye on it next time? I’m not going to learn your lessons for you?”. End of convo.
Kids, “Dad told us he spent $60 at 7/11 with us.” Me to him, ”why did you tell the kids you spent $60?.” Him, “ I was surprised.” Me,”blank face” him, “fuck off”.
This is the constant theme. He’s constantly making these sort of weird errors by not paying attention in life, and i suggest he pay attention, it‘s always met with ‘you do it all for me’ And/or ‘fuck off’ Not really sure why he even bothers telling me this stuff if he’s not receptive to my response?
What am i doing wrong here? Help please!
Submitted August 22, 2021 at 02:35PM by Bottlekoala https://ift.tt/3D8aCEN
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