My gf(23f) is mad at me (24m) for getting her dinner after she did well on a test

Hi,

So I am posting here because I am really really confused and would like some second opinions.

So my girlfriend of almost 1 year is living in nyc right now, and finishing up summer classes. I live far away, but she’s moving back home after the summer. Yesterday, She calls me during her final for the class, and I try to help and just kinda be there for her while she’s stressing and help her calm herself down. Test ends, we say talk later, everything’s fine.

Couple hours later, she lets me know that it’s been graded and she got a 94. I reply with congratulatory texts, some emojis, saying good job bb, etc. She then asks if I can celebrate this accomplishment for her, and I said no problem, let me know what you want to eat for dinner and I’ll ubereats it to you for you and your roommate. She instantly gets upset.

Few hours pass and I ask her still want the dinner? And she is clearly annoyed but finally agrees, I get the order in, and then I am updating her often in a joking way. Letting her know the arrival time, how close the guy is, kinda messing around. When it gets there, I call her and she lets me know that she’s not home, she went to eat pizza with her roommate and then tells me to have it left at the door. I think that’s weird, but whatever. She then texts me that she’s annoyed and doesn’t wanna talk.

Fast forward to today, she lets me know that she is upset she had to ask for a celebration, and that I annoyed her by texting her and I made her unhappy. She then uses this scenario as an example of how I don’t make her feel loved and if I loved her I would have automatically gotten her a gift. I got upset at this because it was not at all how I was expecting this to go, but I was trying to hear her out. It’s now at her saying she can’t be with someone who doesn’t make her feel cared for. I am super lost because I thought me buying them dinner was a nice thing to do but it’s somehow been interpreted as I don’t care and actually somehow annoying?? And worst of all the relationship is basically on the brink of being over. I was going to surprise her in New York in a couple of days but now I don’t really want to and I’m deeply saddened, and have no clue how to go about this.

TL;DR! temporary long distance girlfriend upset at me for buying her dinner to celebrate her good grade after she asked me to do something to celebrate.

Submitted August 25, 2021 at 07:47PM by dove-moisturizer https://ift.tt/3mDLEav