A girl (F25) I’m (M27) talking to, admitted to me that she wants to experience a girl on girl experience “at least once in her life”.

Well last night she had a wet dream, involving another girl. This is happening very frequently, and she always brings it up. She’s always talked about how hot this girl is or that girl, but typically it’s a mutual comedic type of conversation referring to an actress or celebrity of some sort. This morning, while we were talking about her girl on girl wet dream, she mentioned that she wanted to experience that at least once in her life. I let her talk, and ramble, and she continued to talk about how she didn’t really think she had the balls to go up to another female. She kept talking about how there are some cute girls at her job that she knows are bi, but she “chickens out” when she thinks about approaching or complimenting them. I was irritated, so I got a little passive aggressive and told her she should give it a shot sometime. She proceeded to ask me “would it bother you if I did?” and I said “of course it would, but your desires are your desires, and we aren’t official yet, so you can do what you want to do” and now things are a little odd this morning.

Am I wrong for feeling like this is a huge red flag? She’s asking me permission to sleep with someone else…male or female, sex is sex.

I crave monogamy, and assumed at least up to this point, she did as well. But it seems like she has sexual desires that I just can’t get in the way of. I don’t want to get in the way of those desires, because I believe they’ll eventually be fulfilled (with or without my consent).

My stomach has been in knots all morning, because I really like this girl, I just didn’t ever expect her to ask me if I would be bothered if she experimented with another person. I am already planning on walking away, because I feel she might need to be single and explore these desires. This feeling of inadequacy sucks. Am I just overthinking all of this? Has anyone else been in a similar situation?

TL;DR A girl I’m talking to admitted she wants to experience girl on girl sex, and I feel like that’s a huge red flag.

Submitted August 01, 2021 at 05:14AM by WllamChrlesSchneidr https://ift.tt/2TNJUj3