I've been dating my girlfriend for 9 months now (actually today ot's been 9 months), and I think the situation has become unsustainable.
My girlfriend has been having trust issues/insecureness/ since we started dating. We had problems with my female friends calling me a nickname (like "honey", "darling" and stuff like that), problems with me following people she does not like on social media. But this stuff is, for the moment, kinda normal.
There's one thing that is driving me crazy, and I do not know what to do regarding this.
A few months ago, we were living together and a male friend came to out house. We were just the three of us, me, my gf and her male friend. I wanted to change my trousers and put my pyjamas, so I changed them in front of her friend. The next day she told me she did not like that I was left only with my underwear in front of his male friend.
This just happened and nothing else happened.
But yesterday, my girlfriend told me she did not like me showering at the gym, because other men could see me naked and she feels like my nudity is not already her privilege. She feels bad because now she is not the only one that could see me naked.
After she told me this I exploded in anger and started to even shout because I think showering at the gym is nothing you should feel bad for, and nothing your girlfriend should stop you from doing.
I do not understand her way of thinking, and it drives me crazy. I want her to feel good but I do not want her to not let me shower at the gym, because I think it is crazy mad.
Any Ideas on how to tackle this situation?
TL!DR; My girlfriend is very insecure and does not want me to shower at the gym because it feels my nudity is not already her privilege.
Submitted July 03, 2021 at 05:20AM by EloyTolosaGomez https://ift.tt/3xf97Bv
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