I’m not sure why I was putting myself through emotional hell for so long. I felt like I had a child instead of a partner. I’ll save you the four years of trauma, I chose to go through but here was my final straw.
He was at my apartment for more than three days, which is unusual for him. He usually spends two days maybe three then dips. He spent almost a full week with me, was super nice, we had a great time. We were visiting my family and just having a good time until his attitude just flipped. I asked if he was okay and he said yes.
The next day, he confesses that he hasn’t paid any of his bills. His stepdad is upset with him because he ending footing the bill and he’s avoiding everyone.
This made me extremely mad. One, you are too old to be having this issue. Two, you refuse to get a job that pays lower than $24 hour. Three, which hurt me the most, I thought you were here because you were having a good time with me not because you were using me to avoid them.
I ended up helping him with the unemployment claim that was pending and sent him a few jobs. Which he should’ve done himself but I did it. The next day he received a back pay and said he was going to help me get something I really wanted to get.
Long story kinda short, I haven’t seen him in person since that day. I’m going on a road-trip with family and he hasn’t called to check on me. He didn’t come to see me off. I called him 4 times from 9pm-1am, he didn’t answer claimed he was sleeping.Took his friends out to dinner and hasn’t paid me back.
I told him to basically kick rocks. I’m sticking to my decision. I will be in a whole different state for a month. I’m happy that I no longer am taking care of someone who has no decency. I also am happy that I realized my self-worth..after years of not. I’m just really proud of myself. I know people leave their partners all the time.
TL;DR: my now ex boyfriend was using me and after 4 years I’m leaving and so happy.
Submitted July 24, 2021 at 10:21PM by snowpearls46 https://ift.tt/3iI5y0B
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