My (M 23) girlfriend (F 23) was 130lbs when we met. We’ve been together for two years now. I have found her immensely attractive throughout our relationship but over the last few months I’ve noticed my attraction for her has dwindled and it’s coincided with her weight loss. She’s now at 115lbs which, for her height, puts her right on the border of being underweight.
She recently spoke to me about calories and how many calories she’d have to remove from her diet per lb lost which makes me think she’s keen to lose more.
I feel unhappy about this for two reasons. First, I feel guilty for losing attraction because I love her, and I am proud of her for achieving her goal. I wish I could appreciate it like she does but something has obviously switched in my brain and I don’t want this to have an impact on our otherwise amazing relationship.
Second, I’m also concerned that this could go beyond a mere physical preference and become unhealthy. If she loses much more weight she’ll definitely be technically underweight.
What can I do here? How I can bring this up? Should I even bring it up?
Tl;dr - My girlfriend has lost weight and seems keen to lose more. She is now barely in the healthy BMI range and I am less attracted to her. What can I do?
Submitted July 04, 2021 at 03:57AM by yernombi https://ift.tt/3xj8hDx
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