Just cut off 3 very close connections (blocked & no contact) and feeling like hell.
i’m (28F) questioning my decision and needing inputs: am i too quick at burning bridges? Or is it something that should of been done?
1) my mom (53F) who’s been competitive with me since I stepped into puberty. Drags me down whenever I’m in feminine/sexy outfits or whenever i’m dating around. Told me im not making enough money, told me i date too much, told me my education is worthless, (every other time we hang out)
told me i deserved my divorce because i “dated too many guys before”. Also wants me to buy her luxury items on holidays.
Cut her off after she threw passive aggressive fit and flaked on our plans to celebrate my birthday, just because I spent my “main day” with my friends instead of her
2) a close friend (37F) who always feels the need to tell me how she’s better with life. cuz she’s prettier, shes older, shes smarter etc etc. For example when I complain about relationships she would reply “that’s your subjective reality. Don’t have that problem cuz im prettier/smarter and men worship me” Always asks me to rate her on 1-10 scale when we go out. If she’s not a 9 then we’re not going. Needs constant ego boost. Gets annoyed when i share my problems and need support. “I don’t get it and im done with talking because i’d never have this problem cuz im smarter” etc etc
Cut her off after she told me Im “dumb and annoying” on my birthday. Context: was giving her advices on her family drama and telling her to set boundaries. She was like “dumb how you think you’re more important than my family. Ha!! Why don’t you take a look at your own dumpster fire of a personal life before giving me advices”
3)An ex boyfriend (34M) who helped me a lot with jobs etc. Nice to me on good days but disappears when I need support or would tell me to “get over it. Don’t ruin my vibe” “if you’re gonna be sad or mopey don’t hang out with me”
Also would act violent and nasty whenever I tell him no. Demands me to coddle up to his friends & family even when we’re not romantic. (His family and friends are very hard to get along with)
Cut him off after he cussed me out and insulted me because I didn’t return his phone call for 2 days. I was busy with a certification exam and didn’t feel like talking nothing for hours. He called me a psychopath who used him and told me “hope you’re infertile”
Please people of reddit give me some pointers to any of these 3 relationships
Tl; dr - cut out “toxic people” and wondering if im being stupid or petty
Submitted July 22, 2021 at 06:27PM by Comfortable_Duty_605 https://ift.tt/3iKItdF
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