My ex wife died

Just over a week ago I learned my ex wife died. She was in her 30's.

I'm happily married with a child. I haven't spoke to my ex wife in over 6 years. When I found out my wife told me ot was ok to be upset, but I wasn't, not really, I really don't have very many good memories of being married to her.

Tonight I dropped off a sympathy card in her parents mailbox. I didn't say enough, just 1 line saying I was sorry. But the good memories I had of her flooded back.

I dont know how to deal with this. I dont want my wife to think I had any feelings for her, I didnt/dont. But I am sad.

I should make a throwaway account for this but I don't know how and I guess I dont really care.

I'm not asking for advice, if you have any I'll listen. I guess I'm more venting. I'm supposed to be wrapping Christmas presents but I'm not really feeling motivated

TL;DR My ex wife died and I don't know how to handle it.

Submitted December 23, 2020 at 08:33PM by btstphns https://ift.tt/34HqGh5