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My boyfriend exposed my sexual history to my daughter (16F). Not sure on how to fix the situation.

I’ve(33F) had a very hard time with my sexuality. I’ve always been sexually attracted to men and women for sure but I’ve always struggled with how much sex I had. Since I was a young teen (14) I was always very promiscuous and thought about sex a lot. I’ve tried therapy for sex addiction and all because I know it doesn’t stem from a good place because of things in my childhood.

Even after therapy, I always end up in the same predicament of sleeping around and feeling lonely if I don’t have SOMEONE to be with. I make myself feel loved during sex even if it’s with a complete stranger that I know doesn’t love me or even like me.

I’ve never been a cheater when I’ve been in committed relationships but my past always seems to ruin the situation. About 3 years ago I started dating a guy who I felt was like my soul mate. In every relationship I’m always 100% honest about my past and sexual history because I don’t want anyone to feel blindsided or like I’m a liar. He’s the only guy I’ve dated that has fully accepted me and didn’t judge me about it. If anything he was turned on by it. That should’ve been the first red flag I noticed. I thought it was a good thing that he liked that I was promiscuous. Idk why.

He would take me on a lot of vacations and we would have like one night stands with people and threesomes. It was a thrill and I thought that we had a healthy relationship that was just different from the norm. Sometimes I would feel really low and shameful and started thinking about my childhood and my daughter. Even though I feel like my sex life is and separated from my motherhood, I just always carried that guilt that I’m not a good example of what a woman should be. I would HATE for my daughter to be like me. He would always tell me he loved me and that I shouldn’t question myself and that he’ll never judge me. That helped me forget about a lot of things. I felt like I was just being too hard on myself.

I started having those bad feelings again about 2 months ago and around that time he wanted to have one of those crazy nights and I told him that that’s not what I want to do with my life anymore and that I’m trying to mature and I would like to just be with one person. He thought I was joking and when I told him how continuing that type of lifestyle isn’t healthy for me he went OFF.

I tried to keep things calm because my daughter (16F) & her friend who was at the house.

He started calling me a liar, wh*re, a bad mother and I was completely shocked. I couldn’t believe that upset him so much. It got so bad that my daughter came out of her room and he did the most disgusting thing ever. He started telling her about how I’m a slut and whore and just being completely explicit about the things he and I had done. I was so hurt and embarrassed and I couldn’t do anything about it.

I eventually got him to leave but it was after he had exposed everything in front of them. My daughter was in tears and really upset. I just felt completely embarrassed and exposed. Not only in front of my daughter but her friend too.

My daughter seems really distant from me now and irritated with every little thing that I do. When I tried to talk to her about it the morning after, she told me that she doesn’t care about anything I do and that I was always worried about men over her. I feel like I embarrassed her to the fullest and allowed this creep around her, like what grown man wants to even say sexual things like that in front of a child especially about her mother?

I am just at a lost. No matter who I date, it’s always bad. The “good guys” don’t accept me after a while and someone who I thought was on the same page as me does this. & now my child is involved and hates me. I’m not sure how to fix any of this

TLDR; my boyfriend exposed our sex life to my daughter and has left me



Submitted December 01, 2020 at 07:25PM by ThrowRA-dreamont https://ift.tt/3oedxDB
My boyfriend exposed my sexual history to my daughter (16F). Not sure on how to fix the situation. My boyfriend exposed my sexual history to my daughter (16F). Not sure on how to fix the situation. Reviewed by KING SAMUEL on December 01, 2020 Rating: 5

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