So this morning I asked my boyfriend to make me breakfast. He offered me boiled eggs, I didn’t want that but I didn’t tell him I actually wanted oatmeal. So he went upstairs, made his own breakfast & sat down to eat. After a while I asked him, why didn’t you make me breakfast? He said he offered & was trying to go on a walk as soon as possible. Which this is fine, but I always ask him if he’s hungry throughout the day & I make him food that’s easy to make like scrambled eggs, oatmeal, rice, etc.. So after he’s done eating I ask him, why doesn’t he reciprocate the same kindness I give to him? Immediately he gets frustrated with me, accuses me of implying he’s an asshole, tells me I’m blowing this out of proportion, tells me I’m acting entitled, grabs me by the arm & moves me out the way so he can walk the dog. (He said he grabbed me cause I put my hand against his chest to stop him from storming out) So I laid in bed & cried a little while my arm stung cause he’s a strong guy & I came to the realization that, although this is one of our smaller arguments, I’ve put up with this shit for over 6 years. After this small incident, after many years of trying to work out our relationship, I realize it’s probably not gonna get any better. So now I am seriously considering moving in with my grandma down the street (she has an extra room, my late sister’s). Of course I’d let him know why I’m leaving. I’m just young & kinda lost.
(tl;dr) I asked my BF to be kinder to me like I am to him, he got frustrated with me. He called me entitled, accused me of calling him an asshole, etc.. I wanna leave him.
Submitted November 22, 2020 at 11:54AM by kittycaramel19 https://ift.tt/2HuvRJ4
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