Been together for 8 years. We have two kids, 5 and 7.
We never go through each other phone but she'll often borrow mines to use the flashlight when she's looking for something in the kitchen cabinets. She knows my password and I have nothing to hide. My porn folder is well hidden! Yeah, dead bedroom. Rejected all the time. We do it once every 4 months.
On the other hand, she never gave me her phones password. Every time I asked to use her phone, she changes subject or tell me to use mine. When she finally let me use it, she's inches from the screen, looking at what I'm doing on it. Asked her why she doesn't want to give me her password. She asked why? To her, her phone is the only thing she has that belongs to herself. She says she has nothing to hide. She said if you want to use my phone, just ask me and I'll unlock it for you. Okay well wouldn't be easier to give me your password? and I got a "WHY ARE YOU ALWAYS TALKING ABOUT MY PASSWORD?? GET OVER IT"
While she was in the bathroom, her watch got a FB Messenger notification. I was able to read that this guy was talking about getting a massage and she was playing along. He started talking about some happy ending and she was still playing along.
I didn't confront her until a few days later.
The suddently, she was getting more and more secretive of her phone. Smiling at her screen then typing. Moving the screen or sitting down in a way so I couldn't see whats on her phone screen. Started getting annoyed by her behavior and confronted her. Told her about the message from a few days ago where she was flirting with some guy asking for a massage and happy ending. She told me that they were just playing around and she had no intention of cheating. I shrugged it off and made it look like I forgot about this event.
One day, from the corner of my eye, I saw she was watching a Snapchat video of her female friend. Recognized that dumb big mouth filter. You're using snapchat now? Isn't that for kids? She said that she uses it to talk to her friends.
Then one day, she was on her phone and someone knocked at the door. She put her phone on the couch, unlocked. It was one of her female friends. I grabbed her phone and opened Messenger to see the entire conversation with the massage guy. Nothing. Deleted. I opened snapchat and tried to figure out where was the friend list. Finally figured out that she had unread messages from the massage guy. My heart started racing, I could feel it bumping in my chest. I heard her coming back so I threw the phone where it was.
So I know for a fact that :
1- She had ad inapropriate conversation with a married man and was playing along to his flirtatous comments
2- She deleted the FB conversation
3- She uses Snapchat to communicate with him.
According to these 3 points, if she doesn't want to give me her phone password but says that I need to ask for her to unlock it first, does this proves that she is hiding something?
TL;DR! Girlfriend doesn't want to give me her phone password. I saw flirty texts from another man and she plays along. She deleted the evidence and moved to snapchat. Do I require her to give me her password or I leave?
Submitted November 29, 2020 at 07:24PM by baggy9723 https://ift.tt/3lkJdoY
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