My husband has been hinting the last few days and even outright told me he was horny today. I lost my dad not even two weeks ago and we have yet to even hold his funeral. (To be specific, it’s been 9 days since his time of death was declared)
I am still obviously grieving and have no sex drive at all. I told him that as well and he said it’s okay, but is still clearly and visibly upset and disappointed. He does not make any effort to hide his disappointment and is creating a weird/uncomfortable mood.
I honestly feel so frustrated that I have to go out of my way and put in energy so he doesn’t feel bad about this when I just lost my father! I feel like I can’t grieve comfortably. Is this normal? I feel like he’s being extremely selfish and inconsiderate, but am I just being sensitive because of everything going on? Any advice?
Tl;dr - my husband is making me feel bad for not having sex with him when it hasn’t even been two weeks since my dad passed.
Submitted July 22, 2020 at 06:41PM by gjdhsksksk https://ift.tt/3eU1t5w


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