So I (21M) broke up with my ex-girlfriend (21F) of 3 years at the end of June, after finally figuring out I was gay. It obviously wasn’t a pretty split and a lot of crying from and hurt from her when I told her I was, but there was no real way to continue in the relationship knowing I was gay and I had to end things.
It’s been a month since things happened, and honestly one of the biggest agonizing things still had been my inability to come out publicly. In what I thought was the easiest way possible, I announced it on my Facebook yesterday. It was a big surprise to everyone but everyone was still also really supportive. Today though I got a call from my ex (who found out from our mutuals) and she completely lashed out at me for coming out publicly. She basically said now everyone will think she “turned me gay”, why do I hate her so much, etc. I told her sorry, it wasn’t about you, then she told me to go to hell and hung up the phone.
I honestly don’t what to think. I understand she’s still hurting but this was just for me and being able to be honest, come to terms and no longer have to live a lie. I really wanted to do this for myself and be able to come out. But now I’m thinking it was wrong to and that I shouldn’t have. Was I wrong to?
TL;DR: Ex was livid that I came out over Facebook after our relationship ended, hates me even more now.
Submitted July 22, 2020 at 06:09PM by WhatAniSay https://ift.tt/32JGShE
No comments:
Post a Comment