He and I have been together since 2011 and so we’ve gone from high school, to community college, and now to university. He is not working and solely focusing on school because his mom makes enough money to support him. He has taken full advantage of that and has the opportunity to work on team projects like competing in a mars robotics competition (he’s getting a degree in Mechanical Engineering and Im getting my degree in Biomedical Engineering). My situation is different than his; my parents cannot afford to pay for my expenses so I work part time and go to school full time and on my days off I devote it to work, HW, or my relationship.
I usually watch the Super Bowl with my family but he said he’d rather not go this year and I said ok. Today we got breakfast and he said “It’s starting to annoy me with how lazy you are; you need to start changing your work ethic” because I said I’d rather not watch the super bowl in the laboratory while he works on his robotics project. I couldn’t help but get upset by his words and ask him if he meant what he said to which he said nothing, ignoring me to look at his phone.
I simply said “if you don’t like my work ethic and find it annoying you’re welcome to leave.” I also said fuck you because I have been a good student, and he knows that I have life goal plans to pay off my parents home. I have known my responsibilities and I don’t need him to tell me otherwise.
I did feel bad afterwards for saying fuck you and I know I was in the wrong too. How can I fix this?
TL;DR: boyfriend and I got into a fight about me being lazy and I said fuck you and now feel terrible for saying it.
Submitted February 02, 2020 at 12:47PM by -Bazfred https://ift.tt/31kYOwu
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