Over the weekend I was chatting with my best friend about men’s behaviors. I’m mature enough to accept that some behaviors are common but we are all different based on experiences and our own unique biological make up. My friend says that a man she was taking so, in his late 30s, explained that men really want to be with many women at one time. She agrees because men are attracted to women at any given time and to her that means desire to have sex with them.
I explained that attraction is natural, even if you’re in a relationship, but desire shouldn’t be accepted and that is a harsh and dangerous way to paint men. She went as far to say that my boyfriend even wants multiple women but doesn’t tell me because he knows that is something I’d flip over. She said that to men, sex is just sex and isn’t intimate and women should feel a way because that’s how men are. I flipped the script and asked her how would she fee if this happened to her and of course she wouldn’t like it. My boyfriend and I were talking after and this convo literally slipped out of my mouth and he’s super pissed that she labeled him in such a way. How can I help him see her in a better light again and/or should I talk with my best friend about her toxic views.
What do you all think of this conversation?
Tl;dr best friend says all men desire to be with many women at one time and we as women should accept that, boyfriend is upset because she applied this to him and I don’t want them to hate each other because of this. Advice?
Submitted April 01, 2019 at 08:56AM by BlueWolf2018 https://ift.tt/2CMi3E8
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