TL;DR: guy never communicates with me, I feel ignored, like I'm being stringed along, but I dont want to end things either.
Ive(F27) been dating a guy(M24) since October 2018, it has always been a very casual relationship and we didn't really want to put the label girlfriend/boyfriend because we are not monogamous, we used to be really close and see each other a few times a week, but for the last few months, he has been very distant, he doesnt reply to text messages or Facebook messenger messages for sometimes days or weeks at a time.
Ive talked to him about it and he says he's not stringing me along, if he didn't want to continue the relationship he would end it with me, and that he's just busy with work and uni, that he doesn't even have time to message his closest friends, let alone me.
I have gone on dates with other guys to try take my mind off it, but I just don't feel the same connection with them that I feel with him. I can't shake this feeling he's just ignoring/ghosting me, I really don't want to end things with him, it seems counter intuitive to break up with someone because you want to see them more, but at the same time it just feels very one-sided, that I give and he just takes, how long should I feel like a doormat before this is really a problem
Submitted April 30, 2019 at 05:59AM by Throwaweyyy69 http://bit.ly/2IQHbhM
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