My bf and I have only been together 9 months but the sex dropped off a lot over the past few months. Almost every time I tried to initiate I would get turned down. I realized I have been the only one to initiate at all in the past couple months. This weekend we were out having drinks and we were talking about it when he blurted out the sex is boring. This really hurt my feelings. It’s not like I just lay there and I’m willing to try whatever but we pretty much have 3 positions as a go to. I don’t know what to do to turn him on. I’m thinking about just walking out in lingerie maybe that’ll work. But what happens when that gets boring? Am I always going to have to be the one to spice things up? What about him trying something? If he never initiates how am I supposed to feel wanted. I just don’t know what to do and I want to feel desired.
tl;dr: Feel bad bf said sex with me is boring and looking for advice on how to get over it or what to do
Submitted April 01, 2019 at 07:54AM by captainburp https://ift.tt/2I6DROq
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