Hi all
I'm 22F and live together with 24m. Together for a year and things go good.
The problem is that he can be very commanding. A few examples:
I'm trying to do something (cooking, cleaning etc) and he just says dont do that. I ask why not and he'll just explain that I need to do it differently.
Just tonight I wanted to have some cola. He stood up to get drinks. He got me water. I asked why no cola. He says you can also just have water. No explanation.
I get some cola myself and drank it. He said no cola before bed.
I had my bunny out to run. He said put him back in the cage. He poops and clearly isn't toilet trained (first week here, 9 weeks old)
He just came to me like a zombie and licked my neck. That's your romantic moment for the evening. Sad thing is that it's true.
I don't know what to do with this? I can talk about it with him but every time negative criticism will come over as blaming.
TL;DR boyfriend tells me a lot what not to do when it's my own responsibility. I'm old enough? What to do
Submitted April 04, 2019 at 04:25AM by Dutchtomelbourne https://ift.tt/2CTQBEs
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