Edit: I called my boyfriend to talk about it. He sounded extremely annoyed and the entire time he was on the verge of hanging up. But I didn’t want us to go to bed upset. He finally said that he just didn’t want me there because he was only there to get plastered and to have a great time and didn’t want to worry about not paying enough attention to me. He has never invited me to any party with him so he didn’t think it was a big deal this time.
My (20F) boyfriend (18M) and I had plans to mark 1 year since our first date, not our 1 year of officially dating. Today I asked if we still had plans and he tells me can’t go. He then tells me the his bro is hosting a party and he has to go and can’t see me tomorrow night. The party is to celebrate getting into his top college. I was pretty bummed because I was really excited to go on a date with him.
I ask if the party is only going to be his bros, he tells me it’s going to be a huge party and that a bunch of people are going. I ask why he didn’t invite me considering he just bailed on our date. He tells me that the party is for the bros and that none of their girlfriends are going. I got annoyed and starting asking if other girls are going why can’t I, your girlfriend, come too? He just told me no. I asked why he didn’t want me there and he just kept telling me he was done with conversation and would leave me on read.
His bros, about 4 of them, none have girlfriends except the host. The host’s girlfriend can’t even go to the party because she is on probation and has a curfew. My boyfriend also tells me he invited his female friends. I wouldn’t worry, but he has told me that he’d try to get with one specific female friend if he wasn’t with me. He tells me not worry about her because she would never try to get with him.
After a couple hours I asked again, if other girls are going to be there, why my boyfriend can’t invite me. He repeatedly told me that it was a party for the bros and that he was not going to invite me. He told me I was overreacting. I wouldn’t be upset if it was just his bros because I understand we need space from each other but it’s a big party with other girls.
TL;DR my boyfriend bailed on our date to go to a party for his friend. He tells me I can’t go and doesn’t invite me because it’s a party for the bros. I ask if girls are going and he says yes, because it’s going to be a huge party. He tells me he invited his female friends but refuses to invite me because it’s for the bros. He says I’m overreacting.
Submitted January 31, 2019 at 08:44PM by dasha_322 http://bit.ly/2TqnIWR
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