This is soooo messy so please help me figure out what to do. November of 2018 I had a friends with benefits relationship with I guy I’ll call R. R and I had sex like 6 times and I broke things off with him because he started pressuring me into sex and I felt uncomfortable that he had a firearm in his apartment. I told him I respected him but to please not speak to me if he saw me in public.
Fast forward to now I’ve been dating a guy I’ll call M for one month. Like boyfriend girlfriend dating. It’s very new, but we have a lot of fun together and our chemistry is great. He recently invited me to come home with him and meet his family for spring break. I really like him and want things to work out.
I met M on tinder. When I first went over to Ms apartment I realized it was the same apartment complex that R lived at. What I did not realize is that R and M are next door neighbors (all the apartments look the same), with a history.
Last night I was walking out the door of Ms place and I hear two people saying my name. I immediately realize that it’s R and his friend. They follow us, and I basically run away and go to Ms car. R and M have words with each other before M gets in the car with me. R was very aggressive with his words and body language.
M asked me if I knew that guy and how they know my name. I explain the fwb situation and that I broke things off cause I thought he was scary. He said “Ew, that guys pretty gross”. M told me he knows R because they are next door neighbors (imagine two doors to an apartment complex in literally feet from each other). They had a driving altercation and R later broke into his car. R told M that I am “one of his old hoes” and some other nasty untrue things about me that M didn’t want to repeat.
The whole situation is so embarrassing. M and I talked afterwards and I thought that things were good. He’s concerned about his living situation and R being a dangerous person. He thanked me for being honest. At 1 am though after he left he texted me “I can’t stop thinking about it, idk why”
So I really don’t know what to do in this situation to make things right. Obviously I cannot undo my past. I told M that I’m sorry this situation happened, that it’s okay to feel however he feels, that I didn’t know R was his neighbor, and that I’ll answer any questions he has. I just want things to go back to being as great as they were literally the moment before all this happened. Thanks guys.
TL;DR: Last night ex fwb confronted my boyfriend and I and called me a hoe. Previously unbeknownst to me, they are next door neighbors. How to proceed?
Submitted February 27, 2019 at 07:20AM by ineedspf100 https://ift.tt/2XpAhE4
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